Still sounds like a lotta grief for nothing.
I say; send the cash via Wells Fargo Express; and when it's in my grubby paws, I'll send you whatever you bought.
Isn't that easier and safer than going through all this 3rd party [no cash] fiascoism.
Just go down to your local WFE, and grab the bucks. Then send out the item in question.
If the dude doesn't trust the WF deal. Tough.
That's actually the way it's done here on the Forum. Trust. I'm witness to it. I've sold a couple of items here on the Forum; and sold them on trust (both me and the buyer)
Still, better for the seller to beware, than the buyer.
JMHO.
Even though WF is a 3rd party like PP; you get CASH from WF; with PP, you will get headaches, and then maybe, CASH.