My husband, Joe McHam, died

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Joan Breuer-McHam
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My husband, Joe McHam, died

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On November 20, 2013, Joe McHam, a steel guitar player, died of prostate cancer. I miss him a lot.
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So soory for your lose, may the Lord comfort you. Leon
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We will surely miss him as well, God Bless you and the family Dr Joan.
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Joan,
Though we seldom saw each other, Joe and I had been friends for a long, long time. I will surely miss our talks and conversations we had together,
May God Bless and Comfort you in these times.
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Joan, my thoughts and condolences go out to you and your family. We will surely miss Joe from our steel guitar community.
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Condolences to the family. Joe corresponded with me frequently during my bout with colon cancer. His help was appreciated.
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Joan,

I am so sorry to hear this. When I was diagnosed with PC ten years ago, I called Joe. He provided much insight and comfort. I will miss him.

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Re: My husband, Joe McHam, died

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Joan Breuer-McHam wrote:On November 20, 2013, Joe McHam, a steel guitar player, died of prostate cancer. I miss him a lot.
Though it won't heal the hurt, please accept my heartfelt condolences.
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Joan

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Condolences to you and family, He will missed by all. a lot of good steel players and loved ones have been leaving us including joe.
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My thoughts are with you
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Thank you

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Thank you. I need lots of prayers.
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My condolences to you and yours, Joan. I hope the pain eases with time.
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Joe McHam

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Joan, I am so saddened to hear this about your loss. Prayers for you for all the strength you will be needing. May Joe rest in peace and may your heart be blessed forever with his memories he gave you. Condolences to all in the family.
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Please accept my condolences. Joe and I never net, but we exchanged a few e-mails over the years.

Let us all hope and pray that medical science will soon rid us of this terrible disease.
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prayers and condolences for you dear lady.
we will all miss joe
love & peace...........
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I'm very sorry for your loss.
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Joan, I am so sorry for your loss. I know that Joe was so proud of you, and mentioned you often in his posts and emails. My heart goes out to you at this sad time in your life. May God richly bless you in your grief and in all the days ahead.
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So sorry to hear this, your husband will be missed.
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Sorry to hear of this!! RIP Joe.
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So sorry to hear of your loss.

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Joan,
If you'd like,,,call me at 281-856-9453 and I'll be glad to help you in any way I can.
If I'm not home just leave a message and number and I'll call you back.
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Post by Allen Peterson »

Bobby,

Joan needs some help packing up Joe's steel, when she sells it. I told her I would help if I could. If she has to ship it, she's going to need a box and some advice on how to ship it. She may contact you. Just giving you a heads up.

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Sorry for your loss.

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Sorry For your loss Mam, Prayers Sent For You and your Family, Randy Gilliam.
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Dear Joan:

I am very sorry to hear this... Joe was my first teacher here in Houston. I had been off steel for almost 20 years, and had forgotten most of anything I knew by then. I learned a lot from him.

I still have some notes from our earlier sessions, going back to right after I got my Remington 12-string. He got me sorted out right away working on fundamentals, chord grips, and helping me to get around on the wider neck.

I lost touch with him over the last few years, unfortunately.

With my deepest sympathy,

James M. Cross
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I'm so Sorry

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Joan,
I'm so sorry for your loss. We will be praying for your family,

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